Studies
have shown that one of the top fears people have is speaking to
groups. For some people, when it comes to speaking, they'd
rather be the one being eulogized than the person giving the
eulogy!
Even
well-known celebrities have admitted fears of speaking in
public. Barbra Streisand stopped singing for 20 years due to her
anxiety about performing in front of an audience.
How many
times have you watched a speaker and thought, "I can do that!"
And then that little inner critic in your head starts making
noise and tells you, "Who am I kidding! I'm not a speaker... I
can't do this." The more you think these thoughts, the more you
believe it's true. The truth is none of us was born a natural
speaker.
When the
little inner critic starts making noise, what you should be
saying to that voice is, "Thanks for sharing!" Don't let your
inner critic sway you from staying in action.
There's
nothing wrong with being a little nervous before you speak. In
fact, a little bit of adrenalin is good because it keeps you
alert, focused, and energized as you speak.
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