Is There a Story Stopping You?

Are there times when you find yourself working really hard yet you’re not getting the results you want? And, you think the more you do will make the difference—yet it doesn’t. It may have very little to do with how hard you’re working and more to do with the story you make up about yourself that keeps you from moving forward.

I remember attending one of my Mastermind Group meetings several years ago. We dug deep within ourselves and identified the story we had about ourselves that kept us stuck.

We went back into the past and identified the event that had happened that impacted our thoughts and feelings about ourselves. This event became our story. We held onto these stories for so long, we believed they were true. These stories had been holding us back for years.

As I listened to the others share their stories, I could see how much alike we all are. We allow something that happened a long time ago to keep us from growing and reaching our full potential. I realized it was time for me to share a story I’d been holding onto way too long.

When I shared my story with the group, the response I heard blew me away. No one cared! I used my story as an excuse to avoid taking big risks. I finally realized how absurd this was.

I had been carrying this story around with me all these years, using it as an excuse not to step out of my comfort zone and stay just where I was. I had lived with this story for so long, I believed it was true.

I finally got it! I made the story up, it’s not true and it doesn’t mean anything. I am who I say I am. I am not my story and I can do anything I say I can do. So, I put my story back in the past.

And, when I did this, I became freed up. It was as if a huge weight had been lifted off of me. I then made the decision to create a bigger game for myself in my business, and that lead to my first live event in 2009 (and that actually happens next week…WoooHooo)!

I share this with you because whatever story you have that may be stopping you, you can disappear.

I invite you to notice that successful people are always in action doing something to grow their businesses and enrich their lives. They have their stories and their fears, yet they do not allow any story or circumstance to stop them from pursuing their dreams and goals. They identify their stories and may even feel some fear. Yet, they hold onto their visions and move into action.

They’re willing to step outside their comfort zones and try new things. They’re no different than you or I. The only difference is they believe they can, are willing to take risks, and have the courage to move through their fear to go after what they want.

Ask yourself, is there a story I have about myself that has been around so long I believe it to be true? What is the story? If there is a story, why do I keep holding on to a story that is disempowering me? What’s possible for me if I didn’t have this story? What could I create in my life? As you answer those questions for yourself, you’ll begin to be freed up to pursue your dreams.

You’ve probably been carrying your story around far too long. Isn’t it time to put that story back in the past where it belongs and set yourself free to pursue what’s important to you?

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Six Easy, Yet Powerful, Steps to Breaking through the Fee Barrier

Donna is the owner of a home décor business, who came to me seeking help in closing the sale. She had recently lost a sale due to her fear in presenting her fees. Donna had met with the prospect several times, uncovered their needs, answered questions, handled objections, presented a proposal, and discussed pricing. She thought she had done all the right things. It was now up to the prospect to make a buying decision.

After a few moments of silence, Donna thought, “Does the prospect think my fees are too high?” Feeling uncertain with the fees she had presented, Donna quickly said, “You may think my fees are too high. I’ll draw up some less expensive plans for you to look at.” As soon as the words fell out of her mouth, she realized the impact of her actions. Donna’s uncertainty about the fees had gotten in the way of closing the sale. She now created more work for herself to do and lost the opportunity to close the sale in that moment.

Donna’s fear of presenting her fees had stopped her from getting the business. Sound familiar? It’s not uncommon to question whether the fees we’re offering are within the range of what the prospect will pay. So how do you avoid this from happening? It starts with asking the right questions, knowing your benefits, powerfully communicating the value of your product, and presenting different pricing packages. Here are (6) simple, yet powerful steps to follow that will help you break through the fear and give you confidence when presenting your fees:

1. Asked money qualifying questions either before the meeting or early in the meeting. Serious prospects don’t mind hearing money questions. They expect to be asked these questions. Unqualified prospects run when they hear these questions because they’re not serious about buying. Here’s an example: “So I know we’re in the same ball park, approximately how much were you looking to spend?”
   


2. Make a list of the benefits your product provides for your clients. A benefit is a result or solution the client receives from using your product. As you create your list, you’ll begin to get clear on all the ways your clients benefit from using your product. Present the benefits your product provides during your meeting. Here’s an example: “By adding window treatments to your home, the value of your home increases.”
   


3. Make a list of the benefits your clients get from working with you. Of course, the benefits of the product are important, but so are you. In fact, most sales are based on the relationship you’ve developed with the client. Present the benefit your clients get from working with you during the meeting. Here’s an example: “All clients I work with receive personalized service from the start of the job, to the end of the job.”
   


4. Write the results clients have received from working with you. Think in terms of measurable results clients have achieved. This will instill more confidence as you become clear on the value you bring to your clients. Share with the prospect the results clients have received from working with you. Here’s an example: “My client had no idea where to start with decorating her home. After working with me, she selected a window treatment that suits her living style and a fabric within her budget.”
   


5. Communicate the value of your product. Practice saying aloud what the value of your product is and how it helps your clients. Hear yourself speaking with confidence, clarity, and from the heart as you communicate the value of your product. When you clearly understand the value of your product and can communicate it with ease, the fear of presenting your fees disappears.
   


6. Create several pricing packages your clients can choose from. Start to think of different price ranges and programs you can offer. Creating different pricing options, gives the prospect a choice and helps make the selection affordable. They’re more apt to buy if you offer low, medium and high-end products.

ASSIGNMENT:

• Make a list of 4 money qualifying questions, 4 benefits your product provides, 4 benefits your clients get from working with you, and 4 results clients have received from working with you.
  


• Read over the lists so you can confidently state the questions, benefits and results the next time you’re meeting with a prospect.
  


• Role play with a buddy steps 1-5. The more you practice, the more comfortable you’ll be next time you present your fees to the prospect.
  


• On a sheet of paper, create 3 different packages ranging in price from low (basic program), to medium (super program), to high (deluxe program).

If you liked what you've read and want help in applying these steps to your business, I invite you to take your first step by signing up for a Breakthrough Strategy Session with me. I will walk you through a step-by-step process that will break through your fear about presenting your fees, create a 180-degree turn around in your thinking about sales, and move you forward in your business. I will personally give you my one-on-one breakthrough strategies that fit you and your business. Click here to learn more.

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If you would like to use this article on your website, or for your own ezine, not a problem; however, there’s one thing you MUST include: Rochelle Togo-Figa, The Sales Breakthrough Expert, is the creator of the Sales Breakthrough System™, a proven step-by-step sales process that will help you close more sales, sign on more clients and make more money with ease and velocity. To sign up for her free sales articles and teleclasses on closing more sales, visit www.SalesBreakthroughs.com.