Create a Blueprint Plan for Your Event

Once you have created a vision for your event and have made the commitment, now it’s time to create the blueprint plan. A blueprint plan is the #1 key to planning an event that’s successful.

Your blueprint plan includes the following and much more…

• Where the event will be held.
• How many people you want to attend.
• Hours of the event.
• What the attendees will walk away with.
• What bonuses you will offer.
• How you will market it and to whom you will market it to.

There are many parts to creating an event. By creating a blueprint plan, it keeps you organized as you have all the details on paper.

Want to be a Paid Speaker?

Many new speakers are eager to hit the ground running getting paid to speak. Ah... if only it would be that easy! Before you start charging a fee for speaking, there are five things that need to happen.

Authors Dottie Walters and Lilly Walters write in their book Speak and Grow Rich...

You should start charging for your speeches when you have:

• Become an expert.
• Developed a passion for your subject and your career of professional speaking, so that you never stop learning and improving every day.
• Given at least 50 to 100 no-fee speeches.
• Learned to be a good, reliable, exciting, informative professional presenter who can handle any emergency.
• Had members of your no-fee audience come up to talk to you after the speech and say, “What would you charge to speak at our meeting?”

Be the Speaker You Dream of Being

For many people, they dream of being a speaker. Is that you? You know you have a dream of being a speaker. You know you have a message to share with others. Sadly, you don't pursue your dream because of a fear of not being good enough or fear of failing. No one was born a natural speaker. Speaking is a skill you can learn. It begins with following these four steps:

1. Make the decision to pursue your dream to speak. Once you make the decision, new openings for actions will arise.
2. Write your vision of what your life would look like as a speaker. With a clear picture of what you want, your vision will become a reality and no longer a pipe dream.
3. Commit to learn everything you need to learn to become a speaker. By committing, you're holding yourself accountable—that's when the results will come.
4. Take action NOW! Take action today to bring you closer to your dream.

Follow these four steps and you'll begin to see your dream of being a speaker become a reality.

Are You Ready to Shift Your Beliefs about Speaking?

We did not come into the world with any limiting beliefs or fears. When we were born, we were completely unafraid, fully expressed, and spontaneous. But as we grew up, our parents and people around us began teaching us their beliefs. They began saying things like, “Be careful!” “Stop!” “Get away from there!” “No! You can’t do that!” And, the more you heard these thoughts over time, you accepted them as the truth.

When it comes to speaking, you may have a limiting belief you don’t have what it takes to be a successful speaker. You’ve said this statement to yourself so often, you believe it’s the truth.

No one was born a natural speaker. You can become the speaker you want to be by creating a new set of beliefs and positive self-talk. First, identify what your beliefs are, when did you first start hearing these beliefs and ask yourself if they are really true? You’ll see that these beliefs were passed to you by someone else and you heard them so often, you assumed they were true.

We all have the power within us to change the way we think.

Creating a Strong Foundation as a Speaker

If you want to deliver a powerful presentation, it starts with the preparation even before you go to the front of the room to speak. Here are (5) valuable tips for creating a strong foundation as a speaker.

1. Know who’s in your audience before you speak. Call the event or program planner to find out the profile of the people attending.
2. Arrive early before your presentation and walk around introducing yourself to some of the people.
3. If you’re speaking for half an hour to an hour, your talk should cover only 3-4 points.
4. Let the audience know at the beginning what you’ll be presenting and how long.
5. Speak to only one person at a time for about 4-5 seconds. Speak directly to them, not over their heads. This helps reduce nervousness, increases confidence and connection with the audience.

Are You Creating Your Own Team?

I spoke to an entrepreneur today who was stressed out with all the things she needed to do in her business. It was clear by the sound of her voice that she needed help. Doing everything on her own was wearing her down and putting her into overwhelm. She’s a brilliant talented woman who wasn’t focusing on what she does best.

For most of us, it’s our passion that inspires us to go into business. We go into business with the strong desire to help people and make a difference in the world. But as we get more and more into our business, suddenly we realize there are many different hats we have to wear.

Although you realize bringing in business is a priority, all the things you have to do daily take you away from doing what you do best. Before long, you’re spending more time on the day-to-day tasks than on what will bring you in the most money.

You start off each day with a plan in place but early on you get side tracked by an unexpected situation. By the end of the day you realize you haven’t accomplished very much. You’re never going to grow your business trying to do many different things in your business. In addition, you have to focus more on doing tasks that you don’t enjoy doing.

I recently read a quote a friend of my posted on Facebook that sums it up. “A person’s most valuable currency is what comes naturally—if something isn’t easy, then don’t do it. You can’t override your feelings or ignore your core desires and expect to create something sustainable. When you let go of the activities that aren’t second nature, it opens up your creativity.” How true that is!

I can remember when I first started my business, I felt overwhelmed with all the tasks that needed to be done. I thought I was suppose to be super woman. I was doing work I didn’t like doing and it took longer to do because I wasn’t an expert. It didn’t leave me much time to do the work I loved.

As soon as I hired my first team member, I became more relaxed and more time opened up. I gave up the notion that I had to do it all. My creativity juices were brought back to life. I now reach out to my team of experts who help me in the areas I need help. I don’t always need them but I know they’re there when I do.

I invite you to do the same. Start by making a list of all your tasks. Next to each task, write your initial if it’s something you love to do or write an “x” if it can be delegated. Begin to create a team that you can reach out to help you who are experts. You’ll quickly see the difference it makes for you in your business.

Remember, you went into business because you’re good at what you do. Now it’s time to be doing what you do best.

If you would like to use this article on your website, or for your own ezine, not a problem; however, there’s one thing you MUST include: Rochelle Togo-Figa, The Sales Breakthrough Expert, is the creator of the Sales Breakthrough System™, a proven step-by-step sales process that will help you close more sales, sign on more clients and make more money with ease and velocity. To sign up for her free sales articles and teleclasses on closing more sales, visit http://www.salesbreakthroughs.com/.

It’s Time to Raise your Financial Self-Worth

I was recently on a call with a client who shared with me how she received all theses leads at an event she attended. I expected her to be excited with such a strong response. It was obvious by the number of leads she received that people needed her services. Yet, she was feeling frustrated and depressed. And, when I asked her why, she said, “Even if I get the business, I’m still not covering all my expenses.”

I felt so sad to hear this because she’s great at what she does and should be paid generously for her expertise. We went a little deeper and uncovered she was afraid to charge more because she had a low-worth mentality. She had worked many years as an employee. Although she was now a business owner, she was still thinking like an employee.

What she experienced is not uncommon for many people who leave the corporate arena to start their own businesses. It’s easy to sell a large ticket item when you work for someone else. But when it comes to stating your fee, you find yourself tongue tied and stumbling over what to say. Although you have a passion and desire to help your clients, and hope to be financially rewarded for doing that, your limiting belief about your self-worth determines how much to charge.

Here are some statements that show it’s time to raise your financial self-worth:

• You know in your heart you’re not charging enough.
• You’re afraid if you increase your fees you’ll lose the clients you have.
• People are telling you that you should be charging more.
• You don’t believe you deserve to charge more.
• You’re afraid to go after bigger clients.
• You’re not excited when you bring in a new client.
• You resent the time you give to some of your clients.
• You’re giving extra time to clients and feeling depleted.

If any of the above statements sound familiar and you want to turn them around, here are some ways to help you gain the confidence to raise your fees:

• Make a list of the results clients get from working with you. As you write this list, you’ll gain more confidence seeing the value you bring to your clients.
• Ask several current clients why they chose to work with you. You’ll be surprised and delighted by the reasons your clients hired you.
• Visualize clients happily paying you what you’re worth. The more clearly you can see clients paying you what you’re worth, the more real it becomes.
• Write down all the reasons you deserve to increase your fees. After you’ve written this list, read it over and over so you begin to see that you deserve to be paid what you’re worth.
• Ask your satisfied clients for testimonials and then read them periodically. This will increase your confidence when you read how much you’ve helped them.
• For each negative thought you have about raising your fees, change that thought to a powerful and positive thought. Instead of saying “If I raise my fees, my clients will leave, say, “I’m worthy of these fees and provide a valuable service to my clients.”
• Next practice saying your new fees over and over until the words come out as easily as saying your name.

Remember many of the people you’re dealing with are business owners just like you. They see their own costs going up and expect your fees to increase too.

Remember the client I mentioned earlier. After working with her to shift her beliefs and thoughts about increasing her fees, I received a call from her. She was so excited she could hardly speak. She said, “I just met with a new client, presented my new fees and she hired me! And, it was so EASY!” Everything shifted for her once she raised her self-worth.

If you would like to use this article on your website, or for your own ezine, not a problem; however, there’s one thing you MUST include: Rochelle Togo-Figa, The Sales Breakthrough Expert, is the creator of the Sales Breakthrough System™, a proven step-by-step sales process that will help you close more sales, sign on more clients and make more money with ease and velocity. To sign up for her free sales articles and teleclasses on closing more sales, visit http://www.salesbreakthroughs.com/.

It's Time to Blow Your Horn

I recently met with my client, Jenny, who left her corporate job to start her own business two years ago. Her business has quickly grown, she had built up a clientele of loyal customers and she was ready to go after bigger accounts. Yet, there was something in the way that was keeping her from pursuing the bigger accounts.

Jenny had worked for someone else for many years. She was comfortable promoting their product and staying in the background. But now as a business owner, the product she’s promoting is herself. She was having difficulty creating a compelling marketing message and letting people know about her.

When I asked her what was holding her back, she said she doesn’t think she can compete with the big competitors. And, when we went a little deeper, we uncovered the real fear and that was she didn’t think she was good enough. Now, is this the truth? Absolutely not! She made this thought up and deep down she believes it.

For many entrepreneurs, we have difficulty blowing our own horn. What holds us back can be our limiting thoughts. We’re not always aware of these thoughts, but you know they’re there because they can show up in our behaviors.

Here’s how you know you’re holding yourself back:

• You make excuses for not doing what you said you would do.
• You blame circumstances or other people for your situation.
• You find yourself distracted and sidetracked by other tasks.
• You feel overwhelmed by everything there is to do.
• You compare yourself to others.

If you want to take your business to the next level, you have to be willing to step out from behind the curtain and stand confidently and proudly center stage. It’s time to blow your horn, let everyone know how great you are, what you have to offer, and how they can help you.

It means “acting as if” you’re already that person. The more you act as if you are, over time you will become that person. It’s like being an actor. The actor takes on a role. She’s “pretending” to be that person; however, to the audience she “is” that person.

I did that when I created my new website. I wanted a new website that projected an image of professionalism yet softness. I took the leap and made the changes. At first it was scary. I wondered how people would respond. There was no reason to be scared, the response to the website has been so positive since I’ve launched it. In the first week, I’ve attracted two huge business opportunities. I’m so happy I made the leap!

Here’s 5 easy steps to help you blow your horn!

• Make a list of your accomplishments. When you do this exercise, you’ll begin to see how much you’ve accomplished. Far more than you ever thought!
• Make a list of the benefits people receive from working with you. This will help you become clear on what you provide for your clients.
• Interview clients. Ask them what they like best about working with you, what is unique about you, and why they hired you.
• Gather testimonials from your clients. Read those testimonials over and over, so you’re present to the results you’ve produced for your clients. These are your raving fans!
• Take action now! What’s one step you’ve been wanting to do in your business and been putting off that you’re willing to take on today?

If you would like to use this article on your website, or for your own ezine, not a problem; however, there’s one thing you MUST include: Rochelle Togo-Figa, The Sales Breakthrough Expert, is the creator of the Sales Breakthrough System™, a proven step-by-step sales process that will help you close more sales, sign on more clients and make more money with ease and velocity. To sign up for her free sales articles and teleclasses on closing more sales, visit http://www.salesbreakthroughs.com/.

Give Yourself a Break…Cuz You’re the Boss!

I’m the first to say that it’s important to invest in yourself to grow your business. As a solo business owner, I’m always interested in learning new ways to grow my business and help my clients. I know that by learning the latest products and cutting edge information, I have more to offer my clients.

However, recently I noticed I was spending more time outside my office attending workshops than working on my business. I would return from a workshop filled with new ideas. I’d create another long “to do” list to add to my previous “to do” list, not sure when I’d get to all of it. There seemed so much to do and so little time to do it. I realized it was time to put the brakes on, slow down, and take a step back.

I was so busy doing, doing, doing, I wasn’t making the time to absorb and implement everything I’ve learned. Nor was I taking the time “to stop to smell the roses.” Sound familiar to you? You find yourself with all these great ideas, yet pulled in so many different directions that it begins to feel overwhelming.

One of the advantages of being a business owner is that you get to design your business the way you want it. So it’s time to give yourself a break, cuz you’re the boss! Here’s 5 ways to get started.

1. Ask yourself, “Which of these tasks is going to move me closer to my goals?”
   
   You’ve got a number of projects you’re trying to finish. You can’t possibly do everything you need to do. Some things are just not going to get done.
   
   Then make a list of all the things you have to do. Prioritize all the items, listing the most important on top down to the least important at the bottom.
   
   Now you can start working on the most important realizing you probably won’t get to the bottom. And, that’s okay because they can’t be very important or they would have been listed at the top.
2. Take a deep breath, stop what you’re doing and step away.
   
   There are times when work can seem so overwhelming. You feel like everything is coming at you at once. You’re not sure what pile to start on first.
   
   Even if it’s only for a few minutes, step away from your desk, and do something different. When you return, you’ll feel calmer and more focused.
3. Make your weekends your own private time to take care of yourself.
   
   Often on Sunday afternoons, I’ll go up to my office, open up my computer and start working. I’ll tell myself I’m doing this so I can be ahead of my workload except there’s always the next thing to do.
   
   This past Sunday, I did things differently. I decided I was not going to work. Instead, I sat out on my terrace and immersed myself in a great fiction book I’ve been dying to read. What a great feeling to read something totally unrelated to work, and I can’t wait to read the next chapter!
4. Block out time on your calendar to nurture your mind and soul.
   
   For me it’s working out at the gym 3 times a week. For you, it could be taking a walk, jogging in the neighborhood, practicing yoga, journaling your thoughts each morning, meditating daily, or reading a good juicy book.
   
   Even if it’s only for a few minutes, give yourself “special time.” You’ll find yourself more relaxed and focused when you return to your office.
5. As you start to plan next year’s business and personal goals, make sure to block off vacation time and write those dates in your calendar now.
   
   Your vacation time with your family is a priority, and sometimes we forget that. Rob and I have already decided where and when we’re taking next year’s vacation. And, we plan on taking more vacations too.

As a solo entrepreneur, you have to consciously make the time to enjoy life and smell the roses. If you don’t do that for yourself, no one else is going to! And, doing that has to be a priority.
By taking my own advice, something pretty amazing happened! I got 2 new sales without being at my computer. Also, the phone started ringing with people interested in working with me. Of course, I had all my systems in place that made this all the more easy.

If you liked what you've read and want help in applying these steps to your business, I invite you to take your first step by signing up for a Breakthrough Strategy Session with me. If you’re stuck in your business or frustrated you’re not bringing in more sales, please stop suffering and call me. There is a solution! I will walk you through a step-by-step process that will give you clarity about the direction of your business, create a 180-degree turn around in your thinking about sales, and move you forward quickly. I will personally give you my one-on-one breakthrough strategies that fit you and your business. Click here to learn more.

If you would like to use this article on your website, or for your own ezine, not a problem; however, there’s one thing you MUST include: Rochelle Togo-Figa, The Sales Breakthrough Expert, is the creator of the Sales Breakthrough System™, a proven step-by-step sales process that will help you close more sales, sign on more clients and make more money with ease and velocity. To sign up for her free sales articles and teleclasses on closing more sales, visit http://www.salesbreakthroughs.com/.

What’s Your Authentic Selling Style?

When we think about selling, for some of us the image of the stereotype pushy salesperson comes to mind. The first thought we have is someone is trying to get me to buy something. None of us likes to be sold. We become distrustful and will quickly say, “I’m not interested.” Do you have to be like the pushy used car salesman to be successful in Sales? ABSOLUTELY NOT!

We all have different selling styles.

Have you ever watched someone speak and find yourself listening to every word they say? You don’t know the person, yet there’s something about them that draws you to them. It happens because they’re being genuine and real. They’re being themselves.

Before I identified my authentic sales style, I wondered what other successful salespeople were doing that I wasn’t? I was working really hard and producing average results while they seemed to be bringing in the sales effortlessly.

Then, when I was diagnosed with breast cancer, I had no choice but to slow down and let go of trying so hard. When I slowed down, I became connected to my true self. The more natural, spontaneous, authentic, and from the heart I was with people, the more I began to notice things starting to come to me with ease.

It was almost magical. I became genuinely interested in people and started listening to what they said. I created a relationship with them based on trust and they responded to this. I began to attract more clients and close more sales. I had found my authentic selling style!

Being successful in sales doesn’t come from being slick or pushy, or copying someone else’s selling style. That never works because people can sense you’re not yourself. The key is to let go of trying to be what you’re not and trust yourself.

As you begin to trust yourself and let go, you’ll feel more confident, relaxed, and have fun! You’ll see how attractive this is to the people you meet.

A client came to me because she felt she had lost her focus in her business. She wasn’t closing as many sales as she had the year before and wasn't feeling confident. Unsure of what steps to take, I had her narrow down her focus to three goals, clarify who her ideal client was, and identify her authentic selling style. As she began applying these steps, she felt less overwhelmed, had clarity on who she wanted to work with, and increased confidence selling her services. This came across in her interactions with prospects, and in less than a month she closed 2 big sales.

Sales success begins with being yourself. It really is as simple as that. The prospect will come to you because they’re attracted to your authenticity. When you’re being real, your honesty and trust shines through, and people are drawn to you.

Let’s define what selling really is. Once you begin to uncover your own authentic selling style, you’ll start closing more business faster and with ease. Here are 9 ways to get you started:

1. Selling is no longer being the slick, aggressive, and pushy salesperson.
2. Selling is being more interested in the prospect than in what you have to say.
3. Selling is creating a trusting and honest relationship with the prospect.
4. Selling is being a keen listener and listening for what’s most important to the prospect.
5. Selling is thinking of ways of helping the prospect.
6. Selling is going the extra mile and doing the unexpected for the prospect.
7. Selling is showing you genuinely want to help them get to where they want to go.
8. Selling is making yourself easily accessible to your clients either by phone or email.
9. Selling is trusting who you are and being yourself. Remember, you are unique and special just as you are, so let that shine through!

If you would like to use this article on your website, or for your own ezine, not a problem; however, there’s one thing you MUST include: Rochelle Togo-Figa, The Sales Breakthrough Expert, is the creator of the Sales Breakthrough System™, a proven step-by-step sales process that will help you close more sales, sign on more clients and make more money with ease and velocity. To sign up for her free sales articles and teleclasses on closing more sales, visit http://www.salesbreakthroughs.com/.

7 Sure-Fire Ways to Connect with the Right People

Early on in my business, I was networking with everyone with no special focus. When I first started my business, I was a “Jill of all trades.” My business was new and I was open to coaching anyone who asked. I was doing this because I was eager to help people, grow my business, and hone my coaching skills
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As time went by, I realized I was spreading myself too thin and instead of my business growing, it was starting to decline. I knew if I was going to grow my business, I had to get out there and connect with the right people. It wasn’t going to happen by sitting in front of my computer in my sweats thinking about it.

If I intended to network with the right people, I needed a clear and specific plan to follow. In the past, I would push myself to go to an event without much preparation. I was flying by the seat of my pants, hoping for the best. It was no surprise I dreaded networking and didn’t accomplish very much.

So, I asked myself “What could I be doing differently?” To begin with, I needed to know:

• Who do I want to meet?
• Where do they gather?
• What do I want to accomplish from networking?
• Where are the best places to network?
• What do I say to grab their attention?
• What happens after I leave the event?

From answering these questions, I created a 7-step networking plan that works every time.
With this plan, you now know what to do before, during, and after attending a networking event. You’ll be prepared and confident that you’ll walk away having connected with the right people. And, when you connect with the right people who need your product, an abundance of business will start coming your way. Here are the 7 steps to follow:

1. Your Networking Pie
   There are many different places to network. Open up your local business journal and see all the places there are to network. Draw a circle and divide the circle into pieces of a pie. For each slice, write a place where you can network. Some examples are weekly networking groups, business associations, the local Chamber of Commerce, Rotary Clubs, special interest groups.
2. Be a Detective
   Contact the person in charge of the event and find out who’s attending. Then go on the Internet and research them. Maybe they’re launching a new product or have achieved a great sales year. With the information you find, you now have something to say that will grab their attention.
3. Set Your Intention
   Put your attention on your intention. Create specific goals of what you intend to accomplish. Schedule in your planner the number of networking events you will attend monthly and how many people you will meet. And, no matter what, do what you say you’re going to do.
4. Grab Their Attention Immediately
   First impressions happen in the first 30 seconds. Create a compelling 30-second statement that will have the person sitting up and listening. It should clearly state a benefit for the person you are meeting. Write it out and practice with several different introductions until you feel comfortable.
5. Ask Them for Help
   After I ask them questions about their business. If I determine they’re not the decision maker, I ask the person a couple of questions. “Who’s in charge of sales,” followed by, “I’m wondering if you can help me?” It removes any pressure when you ask for their help and people do want to help. I recently attended a networking event and asked these questions. I was given the name of the president, called him and we have an appointment to meet. That was easy and simple to do!
6. Build Relationships
   People do business with people they know, like and trust, and that takes time. Take the time to ask them questions about their business. Show you’re genuinely interested in them. The most rewarding business relationships evolve over time so be willing to keep in touch. Find various ways to keep in touch other than the phone.
7. Follow Up
   Any substantial business I’ve received from networking didn’t happen overnight. It happened because I was persistent and didn’t give up. Make contact with the person you’ve met within 24 hours of meeting them. Expect that it will take at least 6 encounters or more to move the prospect to the next step. Send a personal follow-up note, a thank you, a congratulations note, or a relevant article of information.

ASSIGNMENT:

• Select at least 2 networking events you will attend this month and write the dates in your planner. Most networking groups allow you come as a visitor a couple of times.
• Make a decision to join at least (1) networking group that meets weekly. I recommend a weekly networking group because they’ll get to know you faster on a weekly basis, and start giving you business more quickly.
• Write down clear and measurable goals of what you intend to accomplish at your next networking event.
• Create your compelling 30-second statement. It should include who you are, what you do, and what makes you unique. Write it out and practice saying it until you can say it with confidence and enthusiasm.

If you would like to use this article on your website, or for your own ezine, not a problem; however, there’s one thing you MUST include: Rochelle Togo-Figa, The Sales Breakthrough Expert, is the creator of the Sales Breakthrough System™, a proven step-by-step sales process that will help you close more sales, sign on more clients and make more money with ease and velocity. To sign up for her free sales articles and teleclasses on closing more sales, visit http://www.salesbreakthroughs.com/.

Are You Creating a Wealth-Conscious Mentality?

Do you find yourself feeling worried or concerned at times with everything that’s going on? Unless you’re living on a remote island, it’s nearly impossible not to be somewhat affected by what’s going on in the world. But the good news is, it doesn’t have to stay that way.

This is when creating a positive mindset makes all the difference if you are to succeed in your business. When I speak about the mindset, I’m talking about the thoughts and beliefs you have about yourself as a business owner or entrepreneur. Now, more than ever, it’s important to create a positive mindset, and stop believing everything you’re hearing or reading.

In fact, I recommend you reduce the amount of time you watch TV or read a newspaper. Believe me, you won’t miss anything. The people around you will fill you in on what’s happening and that’s all you need to know.

I know it’s easy to get sucked into what they’re saying. It takes a conscious effort on your part to keep yourself focused and positive. It’s easy to blame others when things aren’t coming your way. But doing that increases the chances of attracting more of the same.

Did you know that more millionaires are created during difficult economic times than any other time? That’s right, even during a recession, millions of people continue to make money.
How do people make money during challenging economic times? They have created a wealth-conscious mentality for building wealth. Their thoughts and feelings match their actions, and that leads to results.

How can you create your own wealth-conscious mentality? It’s simple if you follow these 5 easy steps:

1. Focus on Creating More
   Focus on creating wealth instead of losing money. Remember the more you think you’re losing money, the more you will lose money. Think in terms of words such as “more, plenty of, and abundance.” For example, I am making more money, I have an abundance of clients, I am attracting more opportunities, and there is plenty more where that came from!
2. Choose Your Life
   When you choose your life just the way it is and the way it isn’t, you’re no longer resisting what you have. By letting go of the resistance, it unblocks your energy flow and allows new energy to come to you. During my illness, I chose to live and that gave me freedom and power to do something about it. I then got into action and designed a plan to heal myself. I found the right doctors, joined a support group, and surrounded myself with supportive and loving people. And, met and married the man of my dreams!
3. Take Responsibility
   Although we may say we know we’re responsible for our lives, we don’t always want to be accountable for taking responsibility. When you take responsibility for your actions, you give up any reasons, excuses, or justifications not to do something. As the well-know author, Brian Tracey, says, “The mark of excellent people is that they refuse to make excuses, blame others, or complain about their situations. Instead they say ‘I am responsible’ over and over again.”
4. Move Beyond Your Fears
   There are two types of fear. The first fear is a real fear. When someone is about to push you out of an airplane—now that’s real fear! The second fear is imagined fear. When you think something bad is going to happen that hasn’t happened yet. We all experience imagined fear from time to time in our lives—it’s part of being human. Fear of not being good enough, fear of failing, or fear of succeeding. These are not real fears although you may have the same bodily sensations as real fear. However, remember, fear can be an acronym for...False Evidence Appearing Real. What there is to do is notice the fear, distinguish it’s not a real fear and get into action!
5. Believe in Yourself
   When you believe in yourself, you have the power to move through any obstacle because at the core you believe in who you are. Nothing will stand in the way of you achieving what you want. You have created a solid foundation of who you are and feel secure within yourself. The key steps to believing in yourself start with loving who you are, accepting yourself and others just as they are, appreciating your accomplishments, and being grateful for all that you have in your life. Sound simple? Yes, it is and you’ll start seeing a change as soon as you start practicing the steps.

Assignment:

1. Write your own sentence for each of the words I mention…more, plenty of, and abundance. (For example: More sales are coming my way. There is plenty of money. I am attracting an abundance of clients.) Read this list daily. When you first get up in the morning and before you close your eyes at night.
2. If there’s someone or something in your life you’ve been resisting or putting up with, stop resisting and accept as is. Remember what you resist…persists. As you stop resisting and let go, start to notice what opens up for you.
3. Take an area of your life where you’ve been blaming or complaining about something, and change that by taking responsibility for it. (For example: My business is slow because of the economy. Change that to: I’m going to increase my networking and reach out to more people.)
4. Take on one thing in your life that you’ve been afraid to take on and do it today! You’ll see when you take action, the fear of doing it is much greater than after you take action.
5. Make a list of at least 10 areas of your life that you are grateful for. Then ask someone close to you to do the exercise too and share what you wrote with one another.

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It’s Time to Take a No-Excuses Approach!

Do you find yourself wanting to try new things in your business but then you start coming up with the excuses for not taking the steps to make it happen?
Consider that whatever excuses you have determine the quality of your life.
Excuses can be deadly. They keep us from doing all the things we want to do. They keep us from growing. They keep us from fully experiencing fulfillment and success.
Why do people hold on to their excuses and are so reluctant to learn new ideas that will bring them more money? How often do you say to yourself…

• I want to do this when I have the money. If you’re not looking for new ideas to grow your business, you’ll never have the money.
• As soon as more money comes in, then I’ll make the investment. The sooner you start learning new ways to grow your business, and implement those new ideas, the sooner you’ll have the money.
• I’ll do it next time. Waiting to do it later is only going to delay you from having what you want now.
• I don’t have the time, I’m too busy. If your business isn’t where you want it to be, it’s time to look at where you’re putting your time. If you were to learn one valuable strategy that could increase your income, wouldn’t you say that was worth your time?
• This is something I want but can’t make the investment now. Well, if it isn’t now, when do you think you’ll be ready? Next month? Next year? Someday? There is no “someday.” Ask yourself why you keep putting things off. What’s at the source of this excuse?
• If this was free, then I would do it. How often have you signed up for something free and not taken the program or completed it. There’s no skin in the game. When you invest in yourself, you’re going to get your money’s worth because you have more at stake.

Often what is at the source of our excuses and resistance to taking action is “fear.” Fear of failing, fear of rejection, fear of not being good enough. Your fear may be related to a past event and protecting you from it happening again. The problem is the fear that is trying to protect you, is also keeping you from living a life filled with joy, fulfillment, and success.

So what does it take to move through the fear? It starts with acknowledging the fear and understanding that it doesn’t have to own you. It’s knowing you have a say in how you’re life is going to go. There’s a common saying, “Feel the fear and do it anyway.” Yes, you can feel fear and still take the action to move forward. It may feel scary at first, but one thing is certain. You have all the courage you need from within to transform your business and your life.

Success and growth doesn’t occur when we’re stuck in our excuses. It happens when you’re willing to give up making excuses, willing to let go and take the leap.

I invite you to take a deep breath, trust in your ability to achieve what you want, and go after the things you want! Isn’t it time to take a “No Excuses” approach to your business and your life?

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Whose Life Is It Anyway?

Have you ever noticed the flood of thoughts you have as soon as you wake up? You start thinking about all the things that need to be done that day, how you’re ever going to do it all, will you bring in any new clients today and on and on and on. You’re having all these thoughts and they’re not always rooting for you to win.

Studies have shown we have thousands of thoughts per minute. And all these thoughts are created by one source and that source is YOU. Now, if we’re the source of our thoughts, why aren’t we consistently feeding ourselves powerful thoughts?

Since we were young, we’ve been told by our parents, teachers, and others what we can and cannot do. We are told what we are good at and what we are not. We are told what to expect and what to believe. Because we are just starting out in life, we are dependent on others and believe what they say to be true.

Some typical thoughts we’ve heard from others and start to take on as the truth are:

• I’m just not good at this!


• Things are just not working out right for me!


• Today just isn’t my day!


• Why bother, it’s not going to work anyway!


• Nobody wants to pay me what I’m worth!


• This is impossible!


• If only I had more money!

I could go on and on. I think you get the picture. If any of these thoughts sound familiar to you, you’re not alone. Most of us have had these thoughts or similar ones. It starts to look like nothing is going our way and it’s out of our control. And over time, these limiting thoughts start to impact the way you view life.

How do you shift your thinking? A first step in shifting your thinking begins with taking responsibility for your life.
Although we may say, “Yes, I’m already taking responsibility,” the truth is we don’t always want to be held accountable for being responsible. When things aren’t going the way you want them to go, it’s much easier to blame others and circumstances. Then find evidence and agreement to support not taking responsibility. For example, “It’s not my fault clients aren’t calling me back—just look at the economy.” But, when you blame others, you’re giving up your power and nothing changes.
When you take responsibility for your life, you give up any reasons, excuses, or justifications not to do something. You no longer believe those negative thoughts. You’re saying the buck stops with you. You’re taking charge of your own life. Now, that’s the beginning of taking back your power.

As Joe Vitale writes in his book The Attractor Factor:

“You are totally responsible for your experiences in life. That doesn’t mean you caused them. But on some level you attracted them. You are responsible for them. That’s not good or bad. Simply use the experiences to learn about yourself. Get clear and choose what you prefer to experience.”

The message came through loud and clear for me when I had breast cancer. I was working in an unfulfilling and stressful job when I was diagnosed. I was miserable yet afraid to leave. I had thoughts like, “Who would hire me? I’m not that good. They’ll find out I’m a fraud.” I didn’t want to take responsibility and make the changes. Once I got the impact this had on my life, I was clear that if anything was going to change, it was up to me.
I began to consciously change my thinking and speaking. It started with making a declaration to myself. I declared, “I am good enough and will find a fulfilling career.” The more I repeated this statement; the old thoughts began to disappear. I began to believe it would happen…and it did! Within 8 months I left my unfulfilling job, started a new career, and from there went on to start my own business. When I took responsibility for my life, my entire world transformed.

There’s really no escaping being “responsible.” What it really comes down to is no one can do it for you but you. If any changes are going to happen it’s because you choose to make those changes.

There’s a short powerful quote that says it all, “If it is to be, it is up to me!” And remember…it's up to YOU!

ASSIGNMENT:

Where in your life are you avoiding taking responsibility or blaming others? (Look in areas where you feel powerless in your business or your life.)

• What are the thoughts you’re saying to yourself that keep you stuck?


• How is this impacting your business or your life?


• Where are you willing to take responsibility starting now?


• What is a new thought to create that will get you into action?


• What are the specific action steps you will take this week?

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Yes, You Can Manifest What You Really Want!

As I think about the incredible workshop I just led, I realize that I manifested this! I had wanted to lead my very own workshop for several years. I wrote a vision of what the workshop would look like and read it daily. When I walked on stage on the first day at the beautiful hotel where the workshop was held and looked out at the amazing people in the audience, this was exactly what I had envisioned.

Several years ago I had no idea what it was to manifest. I didn’t understand that by focusing on what you want, you could attract the things you want into your life. I always thought you had to work hard to make things happen. Or maybe if I was lucky, something good would happen for me. It didn’t seem possible that if I focused on what I want, it could easily come to me.

Manifesting starts with being aligned with “who you really are.” As Jerry and Esther Hicks write in their book Money and the Law of Attraction, “When you are a vibrational match to ‘who you are,’ the Law of Attraction brings to you, surrounds you with, lines up for you, a steady stream of powerful, joyful opportunities and openings that just leads you toward an ever-evolving, always unfolding, joyful life experience.”

What I’ve learned is when you are manifesting, you are attracting to you what it is you want because you know exactly what you want, you are asking for it, believing it is on its way to you, visualizing as if it is already in your life, and being open to receiving it. The magic of manifesting is that it can easily come to you. Here are 5 steps to help you manifest all the things you desire.

1. Be clear about what you desire
   You need to be very clear about what you desire. You can’t be fuzzy or indecisive. See yourself enjoying what it is you want and experiencing how good it feels. When you do this, you are making what you desire real.
   
   
2. Focus on the “What”
   Focus on the “What” not the “How” or the “When.” You don’t have to figure out how or when it’s coming to you. All you need to do is decide what it is you want. Focus on the “what” and the rest will follow.
   
   When I decided to do the workshop, I gave up having to know how it would turn out. I turned myself over to believing it would turn out. This was pretty difficult for me to do at first because it meant I had to give up my control. But when I let go, all the steps fell into place.
   
   
3. Expect the best to come to you
   Remind yourself that you deserve the best. This is important because it changes your thinking from a low expectation to a high expectation. It helps to expect that everything is going to work out for the best. We need to have trust and faith.
   
   
4. Let go of the fear
   Don’t back off from what you want because you’re afraid it might not come. The more afraid we are of the past repeating itself and what the future has in store, the more we believe we cannot have what we desire.
   
   
5. Open your mind to all possibilities
   When we let go of controlling people and situations, and thinking we can force the outcome to happen, possibilities come to us through unexpected channels. Give up holding on so things will turn out a certain way. Instead let it come to you freely and naturally.
   

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Is There a Story Stopping You?

Are there times when you find yourself working really hard yet you’re not getting the results you want? And, you think the more you do will make the difference—yet it doesn’t. It may have very little to do with how hard you’re working and more to do with the story you make up about yourself that keeps you from moving forward.

I remember attending one of my Mastermind Group meetings several years ago. We dug deep within ourselves and identified the story we had about ourselves that kept us stuck.

We went back into the past and identified the event that had happened that impacted our thoughts and feelings about ourselves. This event became our story. We held onto these stories for so long, we believed they were true. These stories had been holding us back for years.

As I listened to the others share their stories, I could see how much alike we all are. We allow something that happened a long time ago to keep us from growing and reaching our full potential. I realized it was time for me to share a story I’d been holding onto way too long.

When I shared my story with the group, the response I heard blew me away. No one cared! I used my story as an excuse to avoid taking big risks. I finally realized how absurd this was.

I had been carrying this story around with me all these years, using it as an excuse not to step out of my comfort zone and stay just where I was. I had lived with this story for so long, I believed it was true.

I finally got it! I made the story up, it’s not true and it doesn’t mean anything. I am who I say I am. I am not my story and I can do anything I say I can do. So, I put my story back in the past.

And, when I did this, I became freed up. It was as if a huge weight had been lifted off of me. I then made the decision to create a bigger game for myself in my business, and that lead to my first live event in 2009 (and that actually happens next week…WoooHooo)!

I share this with you because whatever story you have that may be stopping you, you can disappear.

I invite you to notice that successful people are always in action doing something to grow their businesses and enrich their lives. They have their stories and their fears, yet they do not allow any story or circumstance to stop them from pursuing their dreams and goals. They identify their stories and may even feel some fear. Yet, they hold onto their visions and move into action.

They’re willing to step outside their comfort zones and try new things. They’re no different than you or I. The only difference is they believe they can, are willing to take risks, and have the courage to move through their fear to go after what they want.

Ask yourself, is there a story I have about myself that has been around so long I believe it to be true? What is the story? If there is a story, why do I keep holding on to a story that is disempowering me? What’s possible for me if I didn’t have this story? What could I create in my life? As you answer those questions for yourself, you’ll begin to be freed up to pursue your dreams.

You’ve probably been carrying your story around far too long. Isn’t it time to put that story back in the past where it belongs and set yourself free to pursue what’s important to you?

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Are You Taking Risks or Playing Small?

Does the thought of failing keep you from trying new things? If the answer is “yes,” you’re not alone. When we hear the word “fail,” we connect it to something negative and bad. For many people, the thought of failing brings up strong feelings and emotions. The feelings are so strong, it’s feels safer not to take on new things.

If you’ve read the bios of most successful people, you’ll see they’ve all failed many times over before they achieved success. Donald Trump, one of the most successful entrepreneurs of our time, declared bankruptcy only to make his biggest comeback, not only in the real estate market, but by branding his name on products and television. Donald failed many times over. But to him failure is part of the game, and the game includes taking risks. Anyone who is successful is willing to take risks.

I know what it’s like to avoid taking a risk for fear of failing. I never considered myself a “writer” so I put off writing an online newsletter. I saw other people writing newsletters and envied them for being able to write so easily. I had so much I wanted to share, so I could help others, but I was afraid to take the risk and fail. This held me back for a long time.

Then, I started reading other newsletters, took classes with people who were experts at writing an online newsletter, and the fear began to diminish. I immersed myself in learning about writing. I was ready to take the risk. I finally took the leap and wrote my first newsletter! Wow, I can still remember how freed up I felt having finally broken through this barrier. From then on, it became easier each time to write. That was more than five years ago. Since then, my community of wonderful e-zine readers has grown and continues to grow monthly.

Here are 4 key steps to help you move through the fear and be willing to take that risk.

1. Identify the fear: Write out specifically what the fear is, including all the details. I believe to move through the fear; you first have to clarify exactly what the fear is.
   
   
2. Emotions and feelings: Write the feelings you’re experiencing as you think about your fear. Do you feel frustrated, anxious, angry, or hopeless? The clearer you are about the feelings connected to the fear, the easier it will be to move through it.
   
   
3. Real fear or a self-imposed fear: Ask yourself, “Is this a real or self-imposed fear? A real fear would be if you were about to be pushed out of an airplane. A self-imposed fear is a fear you’re experiencing that hasn’t happened. Once you identify that it’s a self-imposed fear and your life is not endangered, you now know you’re in charge and can take action.
   
   
4. Action steps: A powerful way to move through the fear is taking action. Once you take that first step, you’ll feel freedom and confidence because you’re taking charge of your life and the next steps become easier to take.

They say in life you’re either growing or contracting. The only way to grow is to be willing to take risks. I invite you to be willing to take a risk.

As a business owner, I’ve failed many times over. As I look back, I’ve always learned something valuable from failing that has helped me for the next time. I’ve learned that failure is the stepping stone to succeeding. Had I not been willing to take risks and experience the failures, I would not appreciate the wins as much.

Rather than blaming yourself or anyone else for the times you fail, take each failure as a life lesson. Ask yourself “What have I learned from this experience that will help me for the next time?”

Here’s what Michael Jordan, the famous basketball player, says about failing. “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I’ve been entrusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And, that is why I succeed!”

Failing is the stepping stone that precedes growth, develops courage, and leads to success.

Assignment:

• Make a list of all the things you’ve put on hold because you were afraid to take a risk.
  
  
• Ask yourself, “What would my life look like if I took the risk and succeeded?”
  
  
• Ask yourself “What’s the worse thing that could happen?” (The worse thing is either it doesn’t work out or they say “no.”)
  
  
• Make this a game worth playing! Select one item from your list and find a friend or colleague who’d like to play the game with you.
  
  
• With your friend or colleague, determine how and when you are going to accomplish the item from your list.
  
  
• Support each other to do what you said you would do and “just do it!”
  
  
• And, when you do step out and take the risk, stop to celebrate the accomplishment and savor the moment. YOU have won the game, so enjoy the victory!

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Are You Ready to Make the BIG Change?

Do you know the feeling of excitement when you make the decision to take on something new in your business? It could be you’ve made the decision to finally do that workshop, or design a new product or program, or write a book. You feel exhilarated because you’re finally fulfilling your life purpose. You’re about to take a quantum leap in your business! You’ve now created a bigger game to play in your business.

As you begin to make changes, you may notice different emotions are beginning to surface. That excitement you’re feeling has changed to fear and you’re beginning to feel very uncomfortable.

You see, the second you leave your comfort zone, it’s likely you may experience discomfort and resistance. Since all positive changes take place outside the comfort zone, change can be painful. The very moment most people feel the pain, they pull back inside the comfort zone. This is the reason why many people fail to improve themselves or create lasting changes in their lives: They are unwilling to put up with the pain of change.

Here are some things to notice about change:

• Some people embrace change and some people resist it.
  


• Change makes some people feel uncomfortable…so uncomfortable that they may even become ill.
  


• When thinking about change, the mind automatically thinks what it has to give up to make the change.
  


• Making changes may bring up fear of losing security and fear of failure.
  


• People will come up with excuses, reasons and circumstances as to why they cannot change.
  


• If they feel the pressure, they’ll withdraw and retreat to the way it was before.

And as people about to make the BIG change in their businesses and income, and take on doing something they’ve never done before, many people hit the “Panic Wall.” The Panic Wall is the place a lot of people hit when they’ve taken on a bigger game in their businesses. We call it the “breakdown” before the “breakthrough.” Suddenly you’re flooded with self doubts, the fear of failing, and lots of reasons not to take action.

All of these things happening are not unusual. You’ve made a decision to take a BIG leap in your business and all your fears have surfaced. There’s now a gap between where you are and where you want to be. The structure you had in place no longer supports you in what you’re up to next. Whenever we stretch ourselves and step outside our comfort zone, the “ego” will fight like crazy to keep us playing small, fearing annihilation. The ego is the part of us that wants to protect us from repeating past disappointments; therefore, keeping us from moving forward.

The Panic Wall is when the old paradigm mixes with new beliefs. Part of you really, really wants to make the quantum leap, but the other part of you known as ego is afraid of letting go of what it already knows. This is where successful people feel the discomfort and stay the course while others pull back and retreat.

At this point, many of your limiting thoughts, beliefs, and fears are screaming louder in your head than ever before. Thoughts like:

• I’m just not ready to do this yet.
• I don’t have what it takes.
• I’ll never be successful.
• I’m not smart enough.
• This isn’t going to work.
• There’s too much to do.

These limiting thoughts are not the truth. It’s your ego trying with all it’s might to keep you small. In the short term, you may feel better; however, if you let the ego win, you’ll never experience what’s possible once you get to the other side.

The only way to go from your “breakdown” to your “breakthrough” is to stay in action. Experiencing a breakthrough in your business means stretching yourself beyond your comfort zone.

When I speak about “stretching beyond your comfort zone,” your comfort zone could be the fear of losing your security or losing love. To break through to the other side and make your quantum leap, you have to be willing to be with the discomfort for a brief period of time. It takes being:

• Courageous
• Believing
• Committed
• Persevering
• Staying in action
• Being in communication with others (During this time it’s important to reach out to people you trust such as a mentor, coach, and mastermind group.)

The Panic Wall is strongest the first time you experience it because you’ve never been to this place before. The place you’re in during this time is very uncomfortable and the discomfort can be so intense that many people will give up and retreat to what’s familiar. But if you’re willing to be with the discomfort and follow the steps I mentioned, you will make a quantum leap!

Your Assignment:

How badly do you want to take that quantum leap and be successful? If you’re willing to do what it takes to make the changes, here are some ways to keep moving forward.

• Be courageous, believe in your dream/purpose, make the commitment, stay in action, and be in communication with others.
  


• When you hit the Panic Wall, recognize the following:
  
  
• Understand it is only temporary.
  
  
• You’re on the cusp of a HUGE breakthrough.
  
  
• Write out a vision of what you want to achieve and how it looks when you do achieve your vision (be vivid and specific).
  


• Spend some alone time reading your vision daily and visualizing how it feels when you achieve your vision.
  


• Declare it (write a bold statement declaring your intention, “I declare I will write that book!”).
  


• Share your Declaration with at least five people you trust and feel safe with. (The more frequently you speak aloud your Declaration, the more you will believe it.)

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Letting Go of the Past and Focusing on NOW

We all have stories from the past we fondly remember. There are memories we want to keep forever and enjoy sharing with others.

A favorite story of mine happened when I was about five years old. Whenever we would have friends and relatives over for dinner, my parents would let me stay up late and sing my favorite songs to them. So there I was standing in the middle of the living room singing my little heart out. I adored the attention, applause and hugs they gave me. This is a story I can still remember so clearly. I think it’s one of the reasons I love leading to people.

Then there are the unpleasant stories we carry around with us that we’re unwilling to let go of. An event happens that negatively impacts our thoughts and feelings about ourselves. We hold onto these stories for so long, we believe they’re true. These stories keep us from appreciating what we have in the present because we believe it will happen again. So we stop taking risks for fear that what happened in the past will happen again. It affects how we communicate, relate to others, grow our businesses, and even stops us from going after all the things we really want.

I can remember a story I held onto for many years. I grew up in a family of five brothers and sisters. I was the youngest one in the family. I can remember having dinner on Sundays with my family and my oldest brother telling me to “Keep quiet, eat your dinner, nobody is interested in what you have to say.” Being the youngest, I believed what he said was the true. Nobody was really interested in what a little girl had to say. So I stopped speaking up. If I did say something, I spoke very quickly or I’d say what I thought you wanted to hear.

Through the years, not speaking up had a huge impact on my life. I was afraid to say what I thought and ask for what I wanted. In fact, I’d say what I thought you wanted to hear. If someone did something that upset me, I wouldn’t say anything. I would withdraw and be silent. I had no voice.

I was committed to breaking through this barrier. I thought about what my brother said. He had said what he said and nothing more. I had added all the meaning to it. Having this insight was a huge breakthrough for me. I was free again. I had found my voice. I was no longer a five-year old little girl without a voice. I had something to say that mattered. From that point on, my life changed forever. I left a job I had been at for 10 years, where I did not express myself, and went to work for a training company. There I was trained to lead workshops and help people learn to speak up. I had found my voice and was now fulfilling my dream!

These stories have been holding us back for years. We allowed something that happened a long time ago to keep us from growing and reaching our full potential.

Remember this—Successful people create each day newly. They never allow past events to stop them. And it makes perfect sense. Whatever has happened in the past is over. Just because it may have been a disappointing experience does not mean it will happen again.

When you believe it will happen again, you are sending a message to your subconscious that “I believe I will fail again.” You are giving power to something that happened in the past. And, what you believe will happen, will happen.

People that know they are responsible for creating their own successes will learn from past experiences, make the changes, and get into action.

What do successful people all have in common?

• They left the past in the past.
  
  
• They’ve created their lives newly.
  
  
• Giving up is not in their vocabulary.
  
  
• They live their lives from three words…Yes, I can!
  
  
• They’ve had to overcome struggles and adversity throughout their lives but it’s only made them stronger.
  
  
• They have a HUGE life purpose.
  
  
• They are focused, intentional, and committed.
  
  
• They believe in themselves and their purpose.
  
  
• They see life as a place where anything is possible rather than impossible.
  

When you let go of the past, you’re then free to create anything you want. It’s as if you have a clean canvas and from the clean canvas you can paint your life newly. You’re no longer held back by something that happened long ago and is over.

Eckhart Tolle writes in his book, A New Earth, “…nothing ever happened in the past that can prevent you from being present now. We can learn to break the habit of accumulating and perpetuating old emotions regardless of whether something happened yesterday or thirty years ago. We can learn not to keep situations or events alive in our minds but to return our attention continuously to the present.”

The past can only stop you if you choose to allow it to stop you. The past event has nothing to do with who you are in the present. What happened in the past, is over. We only have right now. And, right now, you get to say how you want your life to go.

So, what can you do to let go of the past? You can focus on NOW! What is it that you want to have in your life right now? All we have right now is this moment. Be present to your life right now—this moment. We don’t know what’s in the future. When you create what you want in your life now, you’re creating a new future.

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5 Steps to Believing YOU Can

A key step to creating success in your life starts with believing in yourself and believing you can do it. When you have a powerful positive belief system, nothing can shake your foundation. It is the core of who you are.

Do you believe in yourself? The best way to answer this question is to look at where your life is right now. Do you have all the things you really want in your life? Are you satisfied with what you’ve accomplished? Do you believe your wishes/dreams will come true?

We may want to believe we can have anything we want, yet something gets in the way of that happening. And that “something” can be limiting thoughts. Those nasty little thoughts sneak in and keep us from feeling good about who we are.

It’s not unusual after you take on something big in your life, like starting your own business or doing something you’ve never done before, to have all your doubts and fears come up. Some familiar thoughts you may have are, “Can I do this?” “What if I fail?” “Am I good enough?”

I can remember when I decided I wanted to take my business to the next level; I was so excited. I knew it was time to play a bigger game but then those nasty thoughts started to creep in. There was always this little voice in my head saying, “You don’t have what it takes. You’re not smart enough. What if you fail?” I knew if things were going to change, it was up to me to make those changes. I then took the steps to shifting my thinking forever.

Here are 5 steps I created to help you to believe you can:

1. Love yourself for who you are. Before you can let love in, you must first learn to love who you are. We are all whole and complete just as we are. We all came into this world as magnificent human beings fully expressed. Sadly, many people walk around feeling there is something wrong with them and with the world. And, they’re never satisfied with what they have or who they are. They never appreciate what they’ve accomplished because they’re always thinking “what’s next?”
   
   The good news is nothing’s wrong, there’s nothing to fix, there is no where to get to because you’re already there. There is nothing you need to do to make yourself better because you’re perfect just as you are.
   
   
2. Trust. So often, we walk through life with an expectation that things “should be” a certain way. And, when that doesn’t happen, we’re upset, frustrated, and angry. We then make ourselves and others wrong. We start walking around complaining and blaming others.
   
   There were many times when I was frustrated about my business. I had limiting thoughts like, “Why don’t I have more clients? I’m never going to make the money I want to make.”
   I then took on practicing a new way of thinking. I consciously changed my thoughts and focused on trusting it would turn out. And each morning, I would think of what I wanted in my life and business and say, “I trust it will come to me.” When I did that, the door of abundance opened up and new opportunities flowed in.
   
   
3. Appreciate your accomplishments. If you want to attract more abundance into your life, slow down and allow yourself to be present to your accomplishments. When we take the time to do this, we’re opening up a space of more of the same to come to us.
   
   Think about it this way. If you spend most of your time thinking about what you don’t have, what do you think you’ll attract the most? That’s right! You attract that which you focus on the most. Most times we rush through life thinking about the next thing rather than appreciating what have right now.
   
   When you take the time to appreciate your accomplishments, you are allowing yourself to bask in the victory of what you have achieved.
   
   
4. Be Grateful. Quite often, people dwell on what they don’t have and complain why they don’t have what they want. And the more they do that, the more they perpetuate the same. Remember, like attracts like. They focus on the future and that some day they’ll have more money or more clients.
   
   It’s just as important to your happiness to take time to be grateful for the things you have right now and have already accomplished. When you do that, you’re immersing yourself in the positive energetic forces of life that are around you. And, what you focus your attention on most is what comes to you. The more you are grateful for, the more you open yourself up to attracting more of the same.
   
   Here’s a brief statement taken from Joe Vitale’s book, The Attractor Factor. “Feel thankful for your life, your lungs, your home, it doesn’t matter. Once you feel grateful, you are in an energy that can create miracles.”
   
   
5. Choices. You are where you are because of choices you made. The choices we make in our lives help to make us who we are today. If you don’t like what you have, you can change it. When you decided to start your business that was a choice you made.
   
   Each day we have thousands and thousands of thoughts. We may not think we can choose our thoughts but that’s because we think we have no say in how we think. However, the truth is, if we don’t like the thoughts we have, we can change them and choose more positive thoughts.
   
   Every day you get to choose how the day is going to go. So why not make it a great one! It's a conscious choice you make to believe in yourself and you can start today.

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